The Ceremony
Funeral
A Funeral s a ceremony or rites of passage conducted to remember a life once lived. It reflects the life of the deceased. The ceremony is an occasion held formally in a chapel or church with structure and flexibility, including tributes and poetry and music.
Living Wake / Reminiscing Party
Roll out the red carpet and celebrate the present, listen to the fond words of farewell, eulogies and the praise before you die, as you never get to hear the nice things people say about you at your own funeral.
Memorial Ceremony
A Memorial ceremony often takes place sometime after the burial or cremation, and can be held in any location. By sharing and participating in a meaningful memorial ceremony you can begin to make that heart-rending transition from life before the death, to life after the death. Memorial ceremonies assist us to adapt to change and it allows you to begin the healing process. There are many location options, such as beaches, reception venues, or a favoured restaurant. The choice is yours
Memorial Rituals and Ceremonies
The anniversary of a loved one’s death can be a painful reminder of your loss. To assist the healing process, a simple candle lighting ceremony to mark the occasion in their honour can also be held.
Scattering Ashes
A ritual of the scattering of the ashes of a loved one, can be done with a simple ceremony. Usually a place is chosen that was special to the person who died, or which is precious to those who grieve for that person. You can choose bushland, the sea, or a special private place.
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Memorial or Funeral Service
A funeral service is conducted with the ‘deceased’ being present. A memorial service is conducted without the presence of the ‘deceased’
- religious or non-religious service
- ‘funeral’ service or a ‘memorial’ service?
- ‘viewing’ of the deceased and who should attend?
- casket or coffin – various choices
- Pallbearers?
- You can purchase and choose your own flowers or use the funeral directors florist
- After-service function or wake
- Special arrangements may be required to further personalise your service.
- PowerPoint presentation – photos memorabilia
- Decorative and creative messages on the coffin
- Release of doves or butterflies
- RSL guard of honour
I am a little late in writing this letter, but I would like to thank you for the wonderful service you created for the funeral of my mother Jean.
We found you were very thoughtful prior to the service, offering us suggestions and tools to cope with our grief. Your words and thoughts on the day were once again just what we needed. My sisters and I are very grateful.
Thank you again, and hopefully we will meet again in happier times”
Best Regards,